Lower Expectations For Success!
Jasbina asks Dr. Diana Kirschner – In your book Find Your Soulmate Online in Six Simple Steps you also suggest to readers that they lower their expectations. Tell us what you mean by that.
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It’s a very interesting thing. Expectations are tricky and they set you up for disappointment.
That’s across the board in all of your life.
- They can set you up for resentments and all kinds of problems.
- Expectations are very tricky. The idea is to take the right action.
- You set everything up so that it’s attracting the right people and then let go.
This is a numbers game.
In the book, I talk about how to get your numbers way up so that many more men see your profile.
- You can have it raining men.
- When the numbers are up, you will have to go quickly and efficiently through a whole bunch of people that probably will not fit the bill until you hit gold.
- You want to relax about that. You trade a few emails. You talk on the phone. You set up a coffee date in a public place and that’s it. It’s a yes or no.
All the time, you are winnowing out different people. You understand that this is what it is.
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- You see this photo of this guy. You think, “He’s so perfect.”
- Then he writes to you and he’s so perfect. You write to him and he writes back perfectly. It’s all perfect.
- You’re in love. You’re married. You’re thinking about the future.
What happens when you meet him for the coffee date? You think, “Ugh!”
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What do you think?
Should one lower their expectations in relationships? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
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The above is an excerpt from Jasbina’s interview with Dr. Diana Kirschner.
The entire interview transcript is at: Diana Kirschner Interview: Online Dating Strategies
Listen to the entire interview on: Intersections Match Talk Radio – Jasbina’s Lifestyle Show
Listen to the entire interview on Blog Talk Radio: Find Your Soulmate Online – In Six Simple Steps: Diana Kirschner
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