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[VIDEO] Storybook ROMANCE – 3 Steps To Turn Your Relationship Into One

[VIDEO] Storybook ROMANCE - 3 Steps To Turn Your Relationship Into One Swoon! Every relationship needs romance to thrive, but you don't need to be hopeless romantic in order to instill this into their relationships. Many people, especially men, believe that they aren't the "romantic type" because they don't feel like comfortable making huge romantic gestures and pronouncing their love to the world. But romance is WAY more than that. Need some romance tips? YourTango's Senior VP Melanie Gorman, Divorce Coach Dr. Karen Finn, Matchmaker &

Reading Energies: Dating

Reading Energies: Dating Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Debi Berndt, author of Let Love In: Yes. That’s very empowering. In your book, you discuss what you term the “law of transfiguration” in the context of dating. Will you please share this concept with our listeners? _____    Debi Berndt Reading Energies: Reading Each Other We’re always unconsciously reading each other all the time. We do this with body language. That’s the simplest way to explain it. We also sync up our

Take Charge in Dating

Take Charge in Dating Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Debi Berndt, author of Let Love In:  In your book, you pose a compelling question to readers. You say, “What if I told you that you were responsible for creating every dating experience you ever had?” Debbie, can you tell us about that? _____    Debi Berndt It’s a really hard concept. We think, “Relationships are two people.” You go out with someone and they don’t turn out to be very nice,

Subconscious Effect on Dating

Subconscious Effect on Dating Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Debi Berndt, author of Let Love In: It’s a pleasure to have you. As a professional dating coach and matchmaker, I’m fascinated by insights and perspectives regarding relationships. I’ve thoroughly enjoyed reading your book and would love to explore some of the insights that you shared. To begin with, what prompted you to write this book in the first place? _____    Debi Berndt I always get that question. I

[VIDEO] 2 Reasons Why Men Pull Away (And How To Deal)

[VIDEO] 2 Reasons Why Men Pull Away (And How To Deal) The brutal truth ... Many women have this similar experience with the men. The relationship is going incredibly well — it's exciting, and you're loving the time together. Then, seemingly out of the blue, you feel a distance. You're certainly not the one creating it, so it must be your man, right? You'll be surprised to hear that this is actually quite common behavior between men and women in

Dating Wisely: 5 Tips

Dating Wisely: 5 Tips Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. Lisa Bobby, a Board Certified Life Coach: Thank you. I appreciate you sharing all of your insights with us. I’m wondering if there is any last thought or take-home message you’d like to leave our listeners with. _____   Dr. Lisa Bobby Dating Wisely: Slowly and Open Minded If you’re dating: Go slow and be thoughtful about it. Keep an open mind. Make sure that

Finding The One: 3 Tips

Finding The One: 3 Tips Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. Lisa Bobby, a Board Certified Life Coach: I love that. I can appreciate the value of reflective statements in terms of making someone feel understood. Sometimes we hear our partner say something and we automatically have a story about what they’re saying and meaning. If you do a reflective statement, in case you do get it wrong, there is that opportunity to course correct

[VIDEO] 3 HUGE Signs You Are In A Toxic Relationship

[VIDEO] 3 HUGE Signs You Are In A Toxic Relationship This behavior isn't normal. And it isn't right, either. We've all had that one relationship that left us feeling more emotionally drained than satisfied. No matter how hard we try to make things work, nothing is enough. Even though you love your boyfriend and can't picture yourself without him, things have been super tense between you. He doesn't treat you with the respect

Flexibility in Young Love

Flexibility in Young Love Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. Lisa Bobby, a Board Certified Life Coach: I think it’s wonderful for our listeners to hear these concepts from different people and different vantage points. _____   Do you see patterns at different ages or stages of life with people who are pre-marital in their 20s and early 30s versus people who are coming to you in their 50s and 60s? Do you see differences

[VIDEO] How to Deal With Rejection

[VIDEO] How to Deal With Rejection YourTango Experts – Matchmakers Paul C. Brunson, Peggy Wolman, Jasbina Ahluwalia, Michelle Jacoby, and Marla Martenson on Dealing with Unrequited Love. Check out the video above to learn about 'How to Deal With Rejection?' _____ Paul Carrick Brunson (00:19): We’ve all had clients with challenges. I think one of the hardest challenges I’ve ever faced being a matchmaker is having a client fall in love with someone and that