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Relationship Baggage: What Is It?

Relationship Baggage: What Is It? Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Cija Black, author of in Modern Love: The Grownup’s Guide to Relationships & Online Dating: I completely agree in terms of those precautions. Someone who is having difficulty with boundaries in online dating will find that pretty much every other avenue can be challenging. It’s worth investing in figuring out your boundaries when you’re looking for a sustainable, serious relationship. Earlier, you mentioned relationship baggage.

Online Dating Precautions

Online Dating Precautions Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Cija Black, author of in Modern Love: The Grownup’s Guide to Relationships & Online Dating: They are all compelling reasons. In terms of taking charge of your love life, it’s a great avenue to be able to do that. Based on your experiences, do you feel that online dating is for everyone? Are there any exceptions? _____   Cija Black Online Dating Precautions: Taken Advantage Of I

Perks of Online Dating

Perks of Online Dating Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Cija Black, author of in Modern Love: The Grownup’s Guide to Relationships & Online Dating: Let’s switch gears and talk about online dating. You mentioned that you did it and people would come to you for tips. What is it that appeals to you about online dating? What do you like about it? Why did you choose to do it? Why do you recommend it? _____

Personalities To Avoid: Dating

Personalities To Avoid: Dating Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Cija Black, author of in Modern Love: The Grownup’s Guide to Relationships & Online Dating: I think you hit on something. There has to be an alignment for life goals and core values, whether you value a certain level of communication or growth. Are there any types of people that you shouldn’t date and steer clear of? _____   Cija Black There are some categories. I’ve

Communication is Key: Relationships

Communication is Key: Relationships Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Cija Black, author of in Modern Love: The Grownup’s Guide to Relationships & Online Dating: I think that’s really helpful. Can you give an example of the framework or a guidepost? It could be a hypothetical person or from your own personal experiences. _____   Cija Black I was married before. I was with my first husband for 10 years. Communication is Key: Willingness One of

[VIDEO] Men Are Obsolete – Are They?

[VIDEO] Men Are Obsolete - Are They? Do women need men for companionship? What about support? Do our friendships provide enough of an emotional connection if we're without a partner? YourTango Experts Ellen Whitehurst, Maya Ezratti, Jasbina Ahluwalia and Abby Rodman speak about this issue with YourTango Senior VP of Experts, Melanie Gorman. Check out the video above to learn just how necessary men really are. What do you think? Are women doing just

Know What You Want: Dating

Know What You Want: Dating Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Cija Black, author of in Modern Love: The Grownup’s Guide to Relationships & Online Dating: I think you make a great point. It’s universally important. A lot of people feel pressure, over the holidays especially, whether it’s meeting the relatives or other people you don’t see day to day. Sometimes singles feel confronted with everyone asking about their love life. If one is nursing wounds

Ready to Date?

Ready to Date? Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Cija Black, author of in Modern Love: The Grownup’s Guide to Relationships & Online Dating: That’s such an empowered way of living. You have a choice, and you’re recognizing that there are choices. What are some indicators for someone who is wondering if they’re ready to date? Are there any indicators that someone might not be ready to date? Maybe it’s not the right time to make

Take Charge of Love Life

Take Charge of Love Life Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Cija Black, author of in Modern Love: The Grownup’s Guide to Relationships & Online Dating: It was from your personal experiences. I can see that it runs throughout your book, which is excellent. In your book, you mention taking charge of your love life. What are your thoughts in terms of how one can do that? _____   Cija Black Take Charge of Love Life:

Doubting Happiness In a Relationship

Doubting Happiness In a Relationship Jasbina Ahluwalia discusses with Abby Rodman, author of Should You Marry Him? A No-Nonsense, Therapist-Tested Guide to Not Screwing Up the Biggest Decision of Your Life how people can sense true happiness in love relationships: You have to objectively analyze. You have to step back. You mentioned before that well-worn pair of slippers. It may not actually be serving you even if it seems comfortable at the time.